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10 Steps to Build Strengths and Eliminate WeaknessesBy: Nan Hawthorne
Summary:
Follow these steps to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses - and know how to make the best of both. ![]()
Before You Start This Exercise
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Step One: List Your Strengths Step Two: Choose Your Most Critical Strengths Step Three: Develop An Affirmative Statement About Your Strengths Step Four: Find Ways You Can Make Your Strengths Even Better Step Five: List Your Weaknesses Step Six: Choose Your Three Worst Step Seven: Create A Statement About Yourself That You Will Work to Change Step Eight: Find Ways to Minimize or Eliminate Your Weaknesses Step Nine: Decide What Would Have The Greatest Impact Step Ten: Set A Date to Get Stronger Before You Start This Exercise This exercise will be the more helpful if you can work on it with a small group of friends. Together you can bolster your confidence and learn things you did not know about yourself. Step One: List Your Strengths Using pen and paper, the computer, cassette tape or Braille or whatever medium is easiest for you, create a list of strengths you already have that would be useful in your career. Don't censor yourself; follow your first instincts. Example:
Step Two: Choose Your Most Critical Strengths Look over this list and choose the three most important strengths you have identified. Example:
Step Three: Develop An Affirmative Statement About Your Strengths Compose a statement (or statements) about your strengths as if you were trying to convince someone to choose you for a project. Say "I will" instead of "I can".
Step Four: Find Ways You Can Make Your Strengths Even Better For each item, spend some time thinking how you can develop your strengths even more. Example: I'm a very good writer, and I can continue to improve as a writer by:
The next four steps are exactly the same as the first four but, instead of discussing strengths and how to use and improve them, we are going to cover weaknesses and how to minimize and even eliminate them. Go to Top of Page Step Five: List Your Weaknesses Create a list of weaknesses that could block your career development. Don't censor yourself; follow your first instincts. Example:
Step Six: Choose Your Three Worst Look over this list and identify the three weaknesses that most stand in the way of your success. Example:
Step Seven: Create A Statement About Yourself That You Will Work to Change Compose a statement (or statements) that includes these weaknesses as if you were trying to talk someone out of choosing you for a project. Say "I won't" instead of "I can't".
Step Eight: Find Ways to Minimize or Eliminate Your Weaknesses For each item, spend some time thinking how you can minimize or even eliminate these weaknesses so you can no longer truthfully make the statement in step seven. Example: I procrastinate, and I can manage my time better by:
Step Nine: Decide What Would Have The Greatest Impact Take a look at your two lists and decide which strengths you most need to focus on and which weaknesses are the greatest threats to your success.
Step Ten: Set A Date to Get Stronger Sit down with your planner and set appointments with yourself to take those first steps towards a better, more successful you! Example: In my calendar, there are now these items:
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